To love and be loved is probably the greatest and most rewarding experience one can have in life. Love is a mystery that defies definition. They say it is never good to define love. Once you define it, you've set boundaries to its meaning. And the real essence of love is stripped away.
In the dating sites I've visited, I often read in people's profile that all they want is to find the "One". Now, this is no easy task. Looking for the One could be downright confusing not to mention Impossible. How on earth will we know we've found the "One"? There are 6 billion people out there and counting. Finding just One would tantamount to looking for a needle in haystack.
My aunt used to tell me that if you found someone who makes your heart skip a beat and puts a smile on your face then you should hold on to him for as long as you can. And if he feels the same way and cares for you as much then you have definitely found the One.
Maybe that's the yardstick to use. Maybe not. Who knows? But when I found the one who will make my heart skip a beat - then, for me, the search is over.
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